When people find out I’m a solo traveler, the first question they ask me is how I manage to enjoy traveling alone without getting bored. But to be quite honest, I never felt alone on my solo adventures; in other words, I never felt lonely. Travel boredom can definitely threaten your chances of enjoying your trip, especially if it’s your first time traveling alone. However, being on your own doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be lonely.
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Is solo travel boring?
Unfortunately, this is not a yes or no question. Yes, solo travel might be boring for some, or in certain cases, but to others (like myself), it could be quite fulfilling. You first need to answer a few questions; are you an extrovert or an introvert? Do you cherish your ‘me time’ or you can never have fun without company? What is your travel lifestyle and what are your interests?
There are some things you can do to help you avoid boredom when traveling solo, but you should answer these questions first. Your answers would determine what would work for you.
But first, why do I travel alone? And is it worth the travel boredom risk?
Well, for starters, solo traveling is a life-changing experience that one needs to try at least once in their life. From self-discovery to incomparable memories, there are over a dozen reasons why you need to consider solo travel, and I talk about them all here.
In addition to these, waiting for your friends to make up their minds will kill you. If you wait for your friends, you probably won’t go anywhere. Don’t get me wrong, but others’ indecisiveness will make you wait too long that you’ll either end up canceling your travel plans or end up with extra costs. Waiting for others made me cancel trips; forced me to get more expensive flight tickets; and made me miss out on booking opportunities. In fact, take that as a general rule in life: Don’t wait for others to make YOUR life happen!
So, the short answer to the question of whether or not a solo trip is a good idea: Yes, solo travel is definitely worth it!
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6 Tips to Avoid Travel Boredom on Solo Trips
Sure, there are days when I don’t make new friends or have meaningful stranger conversations, but these days don’t have to be boring and not all days are like that. Nevertheless, there are some tips that could help you meet people if you’re not so good at keeping your own self’s company.
#1 Stay in a Hostel
Hostels are the perfect place to meet people and make new friends as most probably, you’ll find like-minded people there. Solo travelers, digital nomads, and backpackers all usually stay in hostels, so if you’re traveling alone (whether it’s your first time or not), you’ll definitely meet someone whom you’d enjoy his/her company.
You also want to join activities and group trips organized by hostels such as hikes and cycling outings. This is a great way to not just avoid travel boredom but also the perfect setting to socialize.
Just make sure you pick your hostel wisely; you want to stay somewhere that suits your mindset. Click here for everything you need to know about how to pick and book your hostel.
#2 Join Free Walking Tours
Just like organized trips by hostels, most tourist cities have free walking tours that you can join. These are great for your first day in a city – not just because you can meet other solo travelers, but you can explore the destination and get an understanding of how it is over there at the beginning of your trip.
#3 Take a Class
This is another way to avoid solo travel boredom; you may learn something new, enjoy a fun activity, AND you might meet people as well. Be it a cooking class or a yoga class, there must be something that would tickle your fancy.
#4 Facebook Travel Groups and Communities
This is one of the easiest ways where you can ask other solo travelers out. Lots of travelers post of Facebook travel groups and communities, looking for travel partners or locals to show them around or simply just hang out. I personally did this before when I was in Bali. And if you don’t find anyone who’s available at the same time as you are, you’ll at least get loads of recommendations and tips for your destination.
Here are some of my favorite travel groups:
- Women Who Travel
- Female Travel Group | Women Group Travel | GoWonder ®
- Solo Female Travelers (FIRST FB group for women who travel solo!)
- The Solo Female Traveler Network
#5 Common Interests
The power of common interests can help strike conversations with random strangers. YES, people do walk up to others to ask about the book you’re reading or the camera you’re shooting with. And if no one walks up to you, don’t be afraid to approach others if anything seems of interest to you.
#6 Be Open
Speaking of not being afraid to approach strangers, this is a very important mindset you need to travel with. If you’re an extrovert, then good for you; it’s time to unleash your social butterfly. However, if you’re an introvert, then this is the best opportunity for you to get out of your comfort zone and mingle with others.
Have an open mind when others approach you and try to keep the conversation going. Meet everyone with a big fat smile, even your cab driver. And of course, don’t be afraid to talk to strangers!
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Tips for Solo Dining
Travel boredom aside, one thing A LOT of people worry about when they consider solo traveling is having to eat alone at a restaurant. This kind of anxiety is often a result of the fact that certain activities are dubbed as “social activities”. That’s why things like going to the movies, clubbing, and eating at a restaurant become socially awkward when done alone. However, solo dining is only awkward if you let it be.
Here are some tips so you could eliminate the awkwardness that comes with solo dining:
- Don’t overthink it. Really, if you stop giving it too much thought, it won’t be as awkward as you think it is. Give your brain the space to be distracted with something else.
- Pick a restaurant with a view or an aesthetically pleasing one. The visual appeal will put you in a good mood and will give you something to enjoy.
- Focus on the food. Remember, you’re there for the culinary experience (which is one of my favorite ways to get to know a culture), and that alone is enough to distract you.
- Opt for a place with live music. This one’s my personal favorite as I’m a sucker for live music. This shall do the trick to entertain you as you dine alone.
- Sit at communal tables. Some restaurants and coffee shops have shared tables; this is a great opportunity to strike a conversation with locals or like-minded travelers.
How do you feel about solo traveling now? Are you still worried about solo travel boredom or are you now more willing to try? Let me know in the comments section.
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Nadine is an Egyptian curly-head who decided to quit the norm because it just doesn’t suit her. She ditched her 9-5 as a magazine editor to pursue her dream of becoming a full-time digital nomad and to inspire aspiring travelers to embark on their own solo adventures.
A very well balanced perspective of the Solo travel. Like you I cherish my me time and just love my
company. So I could totally get your view point here. The tips of hostel stay, FB groups and eating a
restaurant where the view is spectacular or live music is just fabulous and so on point. I tried these myself
on my first solo trip and couldnt believe how much of a good time I ended up having 🙂
Thanks a lot for your kind words! Solo travel was what helped me cherish my ‘me time’ actually!
Great tips! I remember when I first started travelling solo, I was so scared to dine out alone. I eventually
warmed up to the idea but it took some getting use to. Now, even when I’m not travelling, it’s helped me
dine out alone. Really useful tip about going to somewhere with live music, if you’re vibing with the music,
it won’t feel as lonely.
I felt like the solo dining bit strikes a chord to many, that’s why I focused on it.. And yeah, the live music is my favorite! I literally follow live music everywhere hehe
I’ve personally never traveled solo before but I love these tips! I would definitely use these to keep myself
occupied & social on a solo trip!
You should really try it out sometime, Lisa! Hope these tips would help 🙂
All great tips! Everytime I travel solo, I make new friends. I feel like people sense that I’m more open and
they just start talking to me haha.
PS love your dress in the first picture!
I made some of my favorite friendships on my travels actually! It’s one of solo traveling’s blessings 🙂 And thanks a lot – it’s a dashiki that I got from South Africa!
Great tips for solo travel. It always feel so daunting the first time you do it but in all the times I have done
solo trips, I tend to find that I meet people so much easier and hardly ever get bored. Staying at hostels
and doing tours is the main way I have met people in the past.
I know, right? It’s ironic how you’re never really “alone” on solo trips!
Wow I feel this! I’ve been traveling solo for years (for work & pleasure), and this certainly resonates.
great tips, especially about not overthinking eating alone haha. I too enjoy live music and great views,
they beat any company.
I noticed the solo dining part resonates with a lot of people haha!
I wanted to travel solo for a month
in india with zero money. I have a
tent to take rest but what should I
do for food?
There’s camping equipment for cooking that you can get but you need a campervan or car for you to travel around with all that stuff
i have never done this before, to travel all alone, i visited sharm el sheikh once with lots of friends and i
have enjoyed it so much to the point i have decided to give it a visit one more time asap, but my friends
can’t go with me this time due to their different schedules,, i am scared to get hit by overthinking and bad
memories there and get bored because i am all alone, i love company and friends but my birthday in June i
thought it would be a good idea to enjoy it in sharm el sheikh but alone ?!! would it be a good idea
Happy birthday in advance, Sherif 🙂 I would definitely encourage you to travel on your birthday and to try traveling alone at least once! Solo traveling can seem intimidating and overwhelming in the beginning but if you give it too much thought, you won’t take the step. Just take a leap of faith, start planning your trip, and go for it! It’ll be an experience to remember either way.. Just be open to new possibilities and hopefully, you’d meet a lot of people there. Make sure to check out my blog post on how to meet people while traveling alone, it should be helpful! And to make you feel better, most of my trips to Sinai, in general, were solo trips, and every time I met amazing people 🙂
Thank you Nadine for your thoughts
on solo travel. It is inspiring and
helpful. I am thinking of leaving my
home town of Paris for a world solo
tour. I used to travel when I was
younger and I got lonely sometimes
but also met great people but today at
the age of 57 I feel that I would be a
minority nobody would like to hang
out with. Do you a view on this ? I
draw, how would that help ? I play
classical guitar should I bring it ?
Would you recommend specific
countries where meeting people is
easier ? I hope you are fine. Take care.
Karim
I’m glad you found my blog post helpful and inspiring, Karim 🙂 It’s really great that you’re embarking on a new adventure! I did an interview with Sue Cockell, a fellow solo traveler, about solo traveling after the age of 50. You should look it up on the website – I think you would find it useful in a way…